It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Thomas Waples Jr, who departed this world on September 19, 2026, at Tidal Health Hospital in Seaford, Delaware, after a courageous battle for his life. Born on November 15, 1991, in Seaford, Thomas lived a life full of love, laughter, and dedication to his family and friends.

Thomas was the beloved son of Valarie Abbott-Jenkins and Thomas Waples, Sr. He found immense joy in his role as a father to his son, William Thomas Waples, and his daughter, Journey Lynne Mills. He shared a beautiful life with his fiancée, Jessica Toomey, with whom he spent the last three years, forming a splendid blended family of four children. Jessica remained faithfully by his side, a testament to their deep bond and love.

In his professional life, Thomas was dedicated to serving others, working last as a caregiver and personal attendant for his mother. His varied career included roles as a certified flagger in the construction field and positions at Allen’s Hatchery and Mountaire Farms. He also found joy in the flexibility and interaction offered by delivering for DoorDash.

Thomas was a man of many talents and hobbies. An avid fisherman, he was known for snagging the first catch of the day or the most fish. He was also a passionate gamer, spending countless hours on his Xbox with his best friend, “Eighty,” and other friends around the globe. Thomas’s beautiful smile and bright eyes were a constant presence, as he was always telling jokes, singing, and dancing, lifting the spirits of those around him. His culinary adventures were legendary among family and friends, as he loved to cook and experiment with exotic recipes, often proclaiming, “I’ll try almost anything once.”

Thomas cherished family time and enjoyed doing arts and crafts with his children, creating memories that will be treasured forever. He had a boundless love for life and an infectious enthusiasm that left a lasting impression on everyone he met.

He is survived by his loving parents, Valarie Abbott-Jenkins and Thomas Waples, Sr.; his cherished children, William and Journey; his devoted fiancée, Jessica Toomey, and their blended family. He also leaves behind grandparents Eugene (Gaynell) Abbott, two brothers, William Abbott, Sr. and Thomas Palmer; three stepbrothers, Frank Jenkins, Jr., Linwood Jenkins, and Andrew Jenkins; two stepsisters, Franchesca Jenkins and Shawntia Jenkins; and a host of nephews, nieces, cousins, aunties, uncles and other relatives.

Thomas was predeceased by his grandmothers, Eunice L. Abbott and Sara E. Waples; his grandfather, Elisha Waples, Sr.; his uncles, Garnett Abbott, Cordell Abbott, and Elisha Waples, Jr. and  his aunt, Sheila Hinnant.

He loved visiting Impact Ministries in Georgetown, Delaware, where he found spiritual nourishment under the leadership of Bishop Rick Morris.

A private memorial ceremony will be held to honor Thomas’s life. Family and close friends will be notified of upcoming date.

Thomas Waples will forever be remembered for his warmth, humor, and unwavering love for his family. His spirit lives on in the hearts of those who knew him.